Directed by Hal Ashby
Starring Ruth Gordon and Bud Cort
Death-obsessed Harold has his life changed forever when he meets Maude, an elderly widow, at a funeral. Maude shows Harold want it means to live life without fear or restraint.
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This is truly one of the most inspiring films I have seen in a long time. It’s not often in film that we come across an elderly person like Maude. She is optimistic, carefree, quirky and at times philosophical. More active then some people in their twenties, Harold and Maude presents us with an elderly character (Maude) who defies the stereotypes of what it means to grow old. And I think that is what I liked most about this film.
In a world full of plastic surgery and products guaranteed to help one stay wrinkle-free, Maude doesn’t let old age stop her from being her self. In fact, she even embraces death and knows that one cannot go on living forever. Aging is natural and all living things grow old. And the best thing that we can do, is embrace it instead of deny it. Of course, that is easier said than done. There are moments in the film when the viewer gets a glimpse of Maude’s past and we learn it has not been easy for her. But even with all the loss and hardships, she never gives up on life.
“Give me an L. Give me an I. Give me a V. Give me an E. L-I-V-E. LIVE!” – Maude
Maude: A true free spirit.
I’m still pretty young and while I have many decades ahead of me, I can only hope that I have at least a fraction of enthusiasm that Maude has when I’m in my twilight years.
Harold and Maude is a unique story of life, love and death that dares the viewers to live.
A scene from Harold and Maude. Also want to add that the soundtrack by Cat Stevens is wonderful throughout the whole film.
